Tuesday, November 16, 2010

Day 1- Your Current Relationship

The second part of this post says "If single, describe the single life." So, that is what I will be doing. I am currently single, and have been for a little over 3 years. I dated a guy in high school, and a guy in college, but both of those ended, one on good terms, and one that I wish I could go back and end differently. I hurt this person more than I ever wanted to, even though I knew breaking up was for the better for the both of us.

So, that being said, I enjoyed being single in college. I had quite a few guy friends that meant a lot to me. And I was so involved with college activities that I didn't miss being in a relationship (most of the time). I would be lying if I said there were times when I wish I had a guy around, but didn't resort to the "different guy every weekend" approach that I witnessed some of the fellow students taking.

So, where does that leave me now? I am living with my parents, have a new job, and want to star grad school in the next year or so. I don't keep in touch with any of my friends from high school, so going out on the weekends has not been something that I've done. I'm not brave enough to go to the local hotspots on my own, and don't think that I'm going to find my future...whatever...by doing so. However, even though I am in this weird transition place, I feel like I am more ready than ever to find that person. But, without joining eHarmony (and I don't think I'm at that stage yet) I'll just have to take it one day at a time. Sunday through Friday, I don't mind my single life. Fridays and Saturdays are a little different.

So, stay tuned for a later post that will have what I look for in a significant other. Who knows, maybe it will catch someone's eye!

Until next time fellow blog readers...-KK

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